Completely clueless - need help installing thru-axle on Neo 2T

Hi everyone,

first post here and I'm hoping someone will lend a hand and help me sort this mess out.

I'm trying to fit my Cannondale Topstone 4 gravel bike to the Tacx Neo 2T and I'm stuck. Previously I assembled it with the quick release mechanism that came in the box and realised that was completely wrong. But now I cannot get the original part off the hub to swap with the part that is suggested in the manual (12 DS adaptor I believe).

I think you're supposed to use a tool to remove the inner part (see screenshot) but my torque wrench can't get any purchase on it. Am I right in thinking I definitely need to remove that inner part in order to use a thru-axle? If so can anyone give me advice as to how to remove it. I'm already scratching the coating trying to unscrew it.