About the software update process in general

So, my Instinct 2X just wanted to update itsself from 13.19 to some other version which I replied to with 'later' since I needed the watch and it was not a good time for an update. I opened menu -> system -> software update however once and verfied an update was being offered. After checking again when I came home however I noticed that the update had gone i.e. was no longer being offered.

This has happened to me already once and it took weeks until I got offered the update again. It is highly annoying that unlike in normal computer applications an update is force-fed to the customer instead of leaving me the choice to initiate the update via the Connect App or the watch itsself. Also it sucks that appearently once you open the wrong sub-menu the update is no longer offered even if I did'nt decline it. It keeps telling me "No updates available". WTF!? You just OFFERED it to me! I thought the update package already resides somewhere on my phone!? And there seems to be no other way (apart from manually downloading it) to initiate the update process by myself.

Please fix this. This is a IMHO a bug.