Issues - getting notification of messages and calls on the watch.

Have my Fenix connected to phone (Android) so i see activities, sleep, hr etc in the Connect app on the phone. So, bluetooth connection is working. But, when i get a text message, i do not get notification on the watch. Nor when i get a call. Have looked through the settings and read manual regarding this, and it would seem to me that all the settings are "on" such that i should be seeing messages or phone calls pop up on the watch. Can somebody explain very precisely what i need to do so that i get messages and call notification on the watch? Any/all settings that need to be set, for example. Would like watch to vibrate to notify me when a message or call comes in, and be able to see who its from. Thanks!