I am sorry you are having trouble getting your Edge 810 to be detected by Garmin Express. The Edge 810 does not connect to the computer using the ANT Stick. It uses a USB data cable. Please locate the USB data cable that came with the device and plug it in that way. Then Garmin Express can find it.
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